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Get Spooky with Spouse-ly Halloween Inspiration

Get Spooky with Spouse-ly: Halloween Inspiration


The Ultimate Deployment Countdown Gift Guide

New Back-to-School Style: Spouse-ly Picks for the Academic Year

New Back-to-School Style: Spouse-ly Picks for the Academic Year


5 Ways to Celebrate Harry Potter’s Birthday

Calling all witches, wizards, and Muggles alike, on July 31st it’s time to celebrate Harry Potter’s birthday!


1. Sort guests into Hogwarts Houses

celebrate harry potter's birthday with Hogwarts House Soy Wax Candles, harry potter, ravenclaw candle, slytherin candle, hufflepuff candle, gryffindor candle

Get sorted into your Hogwarts house with the help of these Hogwarts House Soy Wax Candles! Choose from Gryffindor, Ravenclaw, Slytherin, Hufflepuff, or choose one of each.


2. Harry Potter Movie Marathon

Spend the day with a magical movie marathon showcasing Harry Potter films. Set up a cozy area with pillows, blankets, and popcorn for a full cinematic experience. Maybe even throw on a favorite book lover shirt

booktrovert comfy shirts for book lovers

Grab a booktrovert shirt here!


Maybe even decorate your Apple Watch band, Fitbit Versa or Samsung Galaxy Smart watch band to match the theme!

celebrate with harry potter themed charms

Grab the custom charms here!


Consider transforming your living room into a mini Wizarding World, complete with themed decorations, interactive displays, and character cutouts for guests to take pictures with.


3. Decorate with Wizardry

Transform your home into the Great Hall of Hogwarts with some spellbinding decorations. Hang up house banners representing Gryffindor, Hufflepuff, Ravenclaw, and Slytherin, and scatter candles and fairy lights for an enchanting ambiance. Incorporate floating candles (using LED lights and fishing line) to recreate the bewitching scene from the books and movies.


4. Have a hint of butter beer

Butterbeer Soy Wax Candle for harry potter

Enjoy this Harry Potter inspired candle has rich notes of caramel, butter, rum, and vanilla.

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5. Enjoy the magical world of Hogwarts in person.

harry potter wizarding world in orlando florida

Book a trip to Universal Studio and enjoy a butterbeer in person! Need help with travel plans? Connect with travel agent, Kiah Stader.


Whether you’re a die-hard fan or a newcomer to the wizarding world, embracing the magic of Harry Potter will create a captivating and unforgettable celebration. So gather your fellow witches and wizards, cast some spells, and celebrate Harry Potter’s birthday!

the perfect fourth of july finds on spouse-ly

The Perfect Fourth of July Finds on Spouse-ly

Check out these perfect Fourth of July finds on Spouse-ly: Celebrating Independence in Style. The Fourth of July symbolizes our independence and freedom. It’s a day filled with patriotism, backyard barbecues, fireworks, and quality time spent with loved ones.

To make your day even more memorable, we have compiled a list of the perfect Fourth of July finds that will help you celebrate in style. From festive decorations to perfect seasonings, let’s explore the essential elements that will make your Independence Day truly special!


Patriotic Decorations:

perfect for fourth of july red, white, and blue welcome sign

Check out the welcome door hanger sign!


customizable patriotic wreath home decoration

Check out this patriotic wreath!



fourth of july care package sticker kit

Check out this Fourth of July sticker kit!


home of the free because of the brave patriotic towels

Check out the Land of the Free towels!


Grilled Delights and Refreshing Treats:

house chicken seasoning

Check out this chicken rub seasoning!


seasoning kit

Check out this spice seasoning kit!


Fourth of July Fashion and Accessories:

patriotic red, white, and blue Tutu perfect fourth of july find

Check out this patriotic red, white, and blue ribbon tutu!


customizable girl shirt for fourth of july

Check out this customizable Fourth of July girl’s shirt!



customizable boy fourth of july shirt perfect find

Check out this customizable shirt!



red, white, and you bracelet bundle

Check out the Red, White & You bracelet bundle!


fourth of july dangling earrings

Check out the 4th of July dangle earrings!


perfect fourth of july find patriotic pinwheel earrings

Check out the patriotic wooden pinwheel earrings!


Check out the patriotic stars baby blanket!


We hope you find the perfect Fourth of July finds here at Spouse-ly!

5 Perfect Summer Finds from Spouse-ly Post

5 Perfect Summer Finds from Spouse-ly

Summer is here, and it’s time to soak up the sun and embrace the joyous vibes of this vibrant season. Whether you’re planning a beach vacation, a backyard barbecue, or simply looking forward to some relaxing days, Spouse-ly has the perfect summer finds to make your summer experience even more enjoyable.

1. Vacation Countdown

Get the family excited with a visual countdown sticker set to your next vacation!

summer vacation countdown sticker set

Vacation Countdown Sticker Set


2. Personalized Sunglasses

Protect your eyes from the sun’s glare while adding a touch of style with a pair of personalized sunglasses. Look for sunglasses with UV protection to shield your eyes from harmful rays. There are countless designs available, so find a pair that complements your face shape and expresses your personality.

personalized sunglasses for kids

Liv Personalized Sunnies


3. Trendy Swimwear

Dive into summer fun with trendy swimwear that suits your style. From classic one-pieces to bold bikinis, choose a design that makes you feel confident and comfortable. Opt for fabrics that dry quickly, ensuring you stay comfortable even after a dip in the pool or ocean.

Original hand painted watercolor cobalt Roses Women’s Swimsuit

Cobalt Roses Women’s Swimsuit


4. All things Lemonade

Perfect for a summer afternoon, a bridal shower, or any event, the combination of Meyer lemons and a slight fruity-floral flavor of the culinary lavenders is unique and the perfect pairing or celebrate summer with lemon themed decor!

Organic Lavender Lemonade Mix


Hand painted “Hello Summer” door hanger


5. Outdoor Games

Keep the fun rolling with outdoor games that bring friends and family together. From classic favorites like frisbee and badminton to innovative games like spikeball and cornhole, there’s something for everyone to enjoy. These games are sure to create lasting memories and laughter-filled moments.

Rollors Outdoor Game



Make the most of your summer adventures with these perfect summer finds and enjoy a season filled with relaxation and joy. So grab your sunglasses, pack your beach towel, and embrace the sun as you create unforgettable memories during this delightful time of year. Happy summer!


Wives of the Armed Forces Favorite Finds

We are thrilled to share the favorite finds of the Wives of the Armed Forces. From stunning jewelry to professional organizing services, and from fun craft kits to personalized gifts, our Spouse-ly vendors got you covered! 


10 Meaningful Ways to Honor Fallen Heroes on Memorial Day

As Memorial Day approaches, we take a moment to pause, reflect, and remember the courageous men and women who have made the ultimate sacrifice while serving in the United States Armed Forces. This solemn holiday, observed on the last Monday in May, is a time for us to honor and pay tribute to those who have selflessly given their lives to protect the freedoms we hold dear.

On Memorial Day, there are several meaningful ways to honor the fallen heroes who have sacrificed their lives in service to our country. Here are some suggestions on how you can pay tribute and show your respect:

1. Visit a Military Cemetery:

Take the time to visit a local military cemetery and place flowers, flags, or wreaths on the graves of fallen soldiers. It is a solemn and powerful way to honor their memory and acknowledge their sacrifice.

2. Attend Memorial Day Parades or Ceremonies:

Many communities organize parades or ceremonies to commemorate Memorial Day. Participate in these events to show your support and gratitude. Listen to speeches, observe moments of silence, and join in the recitation of the Pledge of Allegiance or the singing of the national anthem.

3. Fly the Flag at Half-Staff:

On Memorial Day, the flag of the United States is traditionally flown at half-staff until noon as a symbol of mourning for the fallen. Raise the flag to full-staff at noon to represent the nation’s resilience and ongoing commitment to freedom.

4. Volunteer and Support Veterans:

Engage in volunteer activities that support veterans and their families. Offer your time at a local veterans’ organization, donate to veterans’ charities, or participate in events that provide assistance and resources to those who have served.

5. Share Stories and Memories:

Encourage the sharing of stories and memories about fallen heroes. Listen to veterans, military families, and friends who have lost loved ones, and allow them to share their experiences. It provides comfort and helps to keep the memory of the fallen alive.

6. Support Gold Star Families:

Gold Star Families are those who have lost a loved one in military service. Reach out to these families to offer your support, compassion, and assistance. Attend events organized for Gold Star Families and honor the fallen heroes through your actions.

7. Participate in the National Moment of Remembrance:

The National Moment of Remembrance takes place at 3:00 PM local time on Memorial Day. Take a moment to pause and reflect, offering a minute of silence in honor of the fallen heroes.

8. Educate and Engage Others:

Spread awareness about the significance of Memorial Day and its purpose. Educate your friends, family, and community about the sacrifices made by military personnel and encourage them to participate in commemorative activities.

9. Support Military Charities:

Donate to organizations that support veterans, military families, and wounded warriors. Your contributions can make a significant impact on their lives and help ensure they receive the care and support they need.

10. Express Gratitude:

Take the time to personally thank active-duty service members and veterans for their service. Write letters, send care packages, or simply express your appreciation for their dedication and sacrifice.

While Memorial Day often marks the unofficial start of summer, with barbecues, picnics, and outdoor activities, it is vital that we never lose sight of its true purpose. Amidst the celebrations, let us pause for a moment of silence to honor the brave men and women who have made the ultimate sacrifice. Let us remember their names, their faces, and their stories, for they are the embodiment of courage, valor, and patriotism.

Remember, honoring fallen heroes is not limited to Memorial Day alone. It is a responsibility we should carry throughout the year, acknowledging their bravery and striving to create a world they would be proud of.

May we never forget. 🇺🇸


Some Spouse-ly ways to remember our heroes and their stories:

Oak Flag Display Case


American Flags – Koralex II


Fallen Military


A Series of Flashbacks: Darkness Within


B1G1 Free, CLEAR Vinyl Remember The Fallen Sticker, USA Military Support, Veteran, Never Forgotten, Weatherproof, Free Shipping


Never Forgotten Bracelet | A Tribute to Your Military Hero






handcrafted mother's day gift ideas

7 Handcrafted Mother’s Day Gift Ideas You’ll Love

Looking for perfect handcrafted mother’s day gift ideas that you’ll actually love? Spouse-ly has some perfect picks for you to choose from! All of our products are created by military and first responder families. So when you shop from one of our vendors you help support our community.


1. Mama Bear & Baby Bear Mountain Gold Gemstone Necklace

Discover nature-inspired beauty with the Mama Bear & Baby Bear Mountain Gold Eagle Eye Hand Wrapped Gemstone Bead and Paperclip Chain Necklace. Show off your love of nature with this unique and eye-catching necklace. This one-of-a-kind piece makes the perfect gift for mom to show your appreciation.


Mama Bear & Baby Bear Mountain Gold Gemstone Necklace

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2. The Mommy+Me Box

The Mommy+Me Box includes a Robe for Mama and matching Bodysuit for Baby.


The Mommy+Me Box

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3. Custom Momma and Me Portraits

Some of us are new mamas, some of us are seasoned mamas; some of us have been separated from family due to the military life, due to an early passing, etc. We love to bring generations together through custom portraits. Use this listing to reserve yours!


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4. Hanging Flower Decor for Mom

Give mom a gift of flowers that will last a lifetime with this beautiful wooden flower basket. Hand painted and sealed in colors as shown in the photo.


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5. Girl Mama Mug or Boy Mama Mug

Each cup is handmade at the time of order.


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6. Mother’s Day Cards

Choose from multiple different Mother’s Day Card ideas!

A card for every imaginable occasion, ACouplePuns delivers sweet messages accompanied by disarmingly darling drawings on superb card stock that is scored, folded, and packaged by hand!

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7. Dance Mom Keychain

This keychain is perfect for any dance mom. The tassel color will vary depending on availability.  If you have a color preference please let them know in your order notes and they will do their best to match it.


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